Kudos to the stalker blog troll. He earned today a tall mug of eggnog and a candy cane. Happy Festivus. He somehow convinced the protective order judge today there is no ongoing threat of stalking. His response was more of a generalized, cocky hodge podge of denials, than a measured, logical, narrative, backed up with evidence and rationales. One less thing I guess for him to worry about before his next criminal hearing on 1/8 when his fate is further discussed by the powers that be about recent criminal acts.
He admitted to the judge (incriminated himself) to knowing that I sent him demand emails to stop contact which he ignored and kept contacting me (hence being, you know, a stalker). Still doesn’t get it. An anti-social attitude that justifies things like stalking as a nothing burger. Classic psychopathy.
He told the judge his video he emailed me of the Joker in Batman waving a knife in the air was “just a joke.” When the judge asked what was the meaning of the joke, he stumbled through his answer, looking for a quick answer, saying vaguely “it was just a joke.” She looked incredulous.
He said he saw that movie, yet regarding sending me that video said “I didn’t think it was a knife. I thought it was a comb.” Talk about gaslighting to save yourself. He just wanted to send me a video of the Joker character “combing his hair.” Right.
Full disclosure, I know this person also outside of the blog. My family and I once had a protective order against him. He was a menace in my life in the past, trying to contact me at least 7 times in the last 4 years, each time me telling him no contact. Caused a lot of damage in my life, and in the life of his own family.
I could also see repeated looks of disbelief at him by the bailiff and applicants sitting near us at that point. The man lied under oath = perjury = damnable. Judging from his modernist, relativistic views on life and the Faith, I don’t think he cares. I think the judge saw through him, but is inexperienced, was just made a judge at the end of September and did not seem to understand (or take enough time to understand?) my submitted long documentation of long term stalking equating to a long term threat of stalking, and that the statute doesn’t just outlaw singular acts of harassment and threats.
That is another story.
All recorded for public record, by the way, in which the prosecutor can look up and surgically lay out all the BS in court (and me), if they wanted to. Smart move to incriminate yourself in a protective order court just down the hall from the actual criminal court that could incarcerate you.
The silver lining in this is this blessed Christmas week and next week I get to just kickback, sip eggnog, and let the DA’s office do their job and let time take its course.
And then hire legal representation for total civil damages down the road, garnishing wages for as long as it takes (will give update on that process).
That would be another silver lining, down the road. Thank you for that, everyone involved.
When you present to a judge (by the way, 32 years old, just made a judge, reportedly giving left-leaning rulings contra the Bill of Rights, a female who dresses like a man, seemingly “transsexual” and homosexual from her social media profile, hardly irrelevant factors) a large volume of concrete evidence of a long term pattern of stalking, that already led to the guy’s criminal charge and arrest, for that judge to rule there is not sufficient evidence of an ongoing threat of STALKING (emails or otherwise) raises a lot of legal questions.
Enjoy your freedom while it lasts, stalker blog troll. When someone tells you to stop all contact, and you don’t stop, that’s literally criminal harassment. Regardless. Your parents tried to explain this to you, and mine own parents, leading in both cases to protective orders. And when you don’t stop harassing, that’s literally called, you guessed it, stalking. There are no rationalizations that a judge or jury during an actual TRIAL won’t see through, AFTER seeing all the hard evidence laid out. Time to cut your losses and remedy your situation before it gets worse.
This is the season to repent and make amends. Stalking and bullying also being forms of addiction, besides drinking and smoking. Time to clean up. What they likely have not considered is that I will read a final Victim Impact Statement to the judge at sentencing, if it comes to that, advocating for a certain level of punishment. I’ll show more mercy than justice if there are future signs of real remorse. I’m not holding my breath.
Today on paper he won one round in court, good for him, avoiding a protective order on his record (if/when he loses in criminal court, will still ask that judge for a PO); yet due to his perjury and lack of remorse, barring some kind of miraculous change of heart, my recommendations to the prosecutor and judge will therefore NOW be even stronger than before. For closure, restorative justice, and his own rehabilitation. This is how Holy Scripture directs us to resolve unresolvable disputes through court and the law, which are sacred things. Bring the criminal before the judge, tell the truth, and seek what is fair and just.